Self-Help Tips : How to Handle a Narcissist
To handle a narcissist, avoid the relationship altogether, minimize contacts or use an approach they can understand. Deal with a narcissist friend or coworker withtips from a licensed psychologist in this free video on self-help. Expert: Dr. Art Bowler Contact: www.drartbowler.com Bio: Dr. Art Bowler is a licensed psychologist with a boutique practice in New York City. Filmmaker: Paul Muller

25 Responses to “Self-Help Tips : How to Handle a Narcissist”
thanks…. not
well i mean there must be more stuff lol to know
Comment made on March 10th, 2010 at 8:02 pmUSMC=Full of Narascascacasisiiststsss
“Fighting For Freedom”= Fighting for your God-given rights everyday in this lifestyle.
PTSD=”I’ve been through some shit but it was avoidable and unessesary.”
Oh how funny the dance of the puppeteer seems. The true joke is that we have more in common with those we kill than with those who govern us…
We dont die in vein though, the time will come.
Expect us…
Comment made on March 10th, 2010 at 8:37 pmthe way he speaks? he takes it up the bum daily.
Comment made on March 10th, 2010 at 9:30 pmis he gay or just metrosexual
Comment made on March 10th, 2010 at 9:36 pmHas the guy in the video got make-up on ?
Comment made on March 10th, 2010 at 9:57 pm@cottonwhiskersuk ur either narssistic supply or useless
Comment made on March 10th, 2010 at 10:36 pm@cottonwhiskersuk thats normal narcissism, pathological narcissism is diferent, lack of empathy, deep hatred of your true self, the narcissist creates a false-self which all his life is based upon and u cannot negate a narcissist false-self without paying the price which is generally devaluation
Comment made on March 10th, 2010 at 11:13 pmYou are so lucky! 30 years after being married to one, I finally found the true definition. I then realized I was worth less to him than the bathroom tissue so I left….. YIPPIE!!!
Comment made on March 10th, 2010 at 11:54 pmI thought that a narcissist was just someone who was obsessed with their own physical beauty, derived from Narcissus, the youth in Greek mythology who fell in love with his own reflection in a pool of water. What is the correct definition?
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 12:25 amTHANKS FOR THE ADVICE FAGBOY….
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 1:24 am@bijouloves -
I had the same experience. I had to stop taking calls from the narcissist. I had to not pay my phone bill one month.
I had a difficult time breaking the tie because narcissists are so manipulative. I’d end up feeling sorry for him. Now I smile when I think of it & wonder who he’s latched onto as a replacement. One thing I noticed is that he always had loads of friends, but they were never his friend for very long.
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 1:31 amNatalie Portman becomes extremely angry if you tell her she’s cute. Its kinda funny at first, when you realize, she sees herself as statuesque and charismatic, even though she is not statuesque and charismatic, she’s cute, and because being told she is cute contradicts that image she has of herself, if you tell her she’s cute she will fly into a rage.
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 2:23 amI think Natalie Portman has NPD.
heck, even her first two initials;
N atalie P ortman
N P D
Narcissist, Personality, Disorder.
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 2:57 amI saw the title of the video,and I thought it would just be some guy holding a shotgun up to the camera for one minute and twenty five seconds.
Just jokin’…
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 3:48 amnarcissists use people like tissue paper. Had a “friendship” with one, who wanted to be her personal fan club/mother and i broke it off with her for my own survivial. I have told myself i will have nothing to do with these types again, and try to avoid them like the plague.
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 4:30 am@ares12790
I would love to talk to you more about it…..im trying to understand my son who I believe has npd
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 4:51 amIm a covert Narcissist and i want someone to talk to, that wont see me ever, but whom i want to tell eveything about my narcissistic ways and traits to.
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 5:06 amBe heard by those who can make things happen at all cost.Don’t give up.
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 5:18 am@hush2088 What does this clinicians sexuality have to do with the information he has shared w/ those who want to be educated on how to deal with npd?
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 5:45 amSTFU go back to your gay life and stay there wit yawl head in the sand, yoo talk pish, oh and btw from one psychologist to another… I ‘KNOW’ you are a fake, so fuck off!
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 6:27 amwhat the hell are talking about? i am talking about arrogant Ns. most of them are criminals
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 6:41 amsairaj1 its called the recession for a reason buddy
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 7:30 amoh and one more thing if your dealing with a narcissistic it could be that, that you just do not care enough for yourself. being emotional independent-meaning knowing how to take care of yourself emotionally will keep you away from such people. Because you will always find a way out.
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 7:42 amAnd if you work for one and you live in the United States, do not tell me that you cannot get another job because we are not a poor nation.
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 7:58 amI agree with this Doc. having been psych student myself and dealing with a narcissist in the past, I know that they will NEVER want you as an equal. I had tried so much that I almost ruined my life. I even became physically sick. These people do feel guilty “rarely”.It is also a personality disorder they have. My advice to you is that please let him/her go and do not try to change them. Cry all night if you want but don’t ruin your whole life.
Comment made on March 11th, 2010 at 8:05 amLeave a Comment