WOLF: The Self-Absorbed Christian Marriage
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In this “what’s in it for me?” society, self-absorption has become the norm. Ranging from mere selfishness to the personality disorder of Narcissism, society is replete with this characteristic. A marriage suffering from self-absorption is filled with confusion, unmet needs, loneliness, questions, and resentment. for the Christian committed to a covenant marriage, this is acutely painfull as he or she begins to feel trapped in his or her own vows. The reality is… More >>
WOLF: The Self-Absorbed Christian Marriage
3 Responses to “WOLF: The Self-Absorbed Christian Marriage”
Anyone who feels that things just aren’t making any logical sense anymore, that their own realities cant fit within the everchanging world in which they feel trapped NEED to read this book. I spent many many hours hunting in the bookstores and online never to find a book that approached the desperateness brought on by living within their world. To survive this situation a person needs good solid advice and this all starts within this refreshing approach for christians living in their ‘perfect’ marriage. Ms Buchholz-Castronova has finally filled a gap within the ranks of books on relationships. Thank you. I think many people have been waiting. The word needs to get out.
Comment made on May 7th, 2010 at 10:23 pmRating: 5 / 5
At last a self-help book that actually helps! I have often referred supposed self-help books to people struggling with different issues only to be disappointed that the book, while promising relief, actually creates more grief. This gripping honest account of life lived in narcissistic rule actually gives specific steps to peace and freedom, physically and spiritually. This is a top 10 counselor’s tool! Well done Marj Bucholz-Castronova!
Comment made on May 8th, 2010 at 12:39 amRating: 5 / 5
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This book is a one-of-a-kind resource for Christians who are married to narcissists. If you are married to someone who has a destructive narcissistic personality and you are a Christian, you will find it invaluable. Most (but not all) secular resources about marriages to narcissists advise simply leaving and finding someone who is capable of loving in a fulfilling way. For the Christian, oftentimes leaving is not an option for many reasons, but most importantly when the Christian still loves the spouse and wants to continue to live out their commitment to love. This book addresses how to do this and provides Scriptural support for doing so as well, at the same time not denying the reality of the anguish and heartache that ensues when you live with a grossly self-centered and emotionally stunted human being.
I recommend this book to give the Christian perspective along with Nina W. Brown’s “Loving the Self-Absorbed” for a secular perspective (but even more tips). Both books are for spouses who wish to STAY and love the narcissist. This approach would definitely not be for everyone, as many people would leave under the stress of being married to someone who is narcissistic, but if God is calling you to stay, then you’ve found help here.
Highly recommended.
Comment made on May 8th, 2010 at 3:27 am*****
Rating: 5 / 5
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